Refactors our use of `slogtest` to instantiate a "standard logger" across most of our tests. This standard logger incorporates https://github.com/coder/slog/pull/217 to also ignore database query canceled errors by default, which are a source of low-severity flakes.
Any test that has set non-default `slogtest.Options` is left alone. In particular, `coderdtest` defaults to ignoring all errors. We might consider revisiting that decision now that we have better tools to target the really common flaky Error logs on shutdown.
- Updates plugin staleness check to check mtime instead of atime, as atime has been shown to be unreliable
- Updates existing unit test to use a real filesystem as Afero's in-memory FS doesn't support atimes at all
