1. Adds benchmarks comparing bcrypt and our pbkdf2 settings
1. Changes the pbkdf2 hash iterations back to 65k. 1024 is insecure
1. Gets rid of the short circuit when the user isn't found, preventing
timing attacks which can reveal which emails exist on a deployment
```
$ go test -bench .
goos: linux
goarch: amd64
pkg: github.com/coder/coder/coderd/userpassword
cpu: Intel(R) Core(TM) i9-9900K CPU @ 3.60GHz
BenchmarkBcryptMinCost-16 1651 702727 ns/op 5165 B/op 10 allocs/op
BenchmarkPbkdf2MinCost-16 1669 714843 ns/op 804 B/op 10 allocs/op
BenchmarkBcryptDefaultCost-16 27 42676316 ns/op 5246 B/op 10 allocs/op
BenchmarkPbkdf2-16 26 45902236 ns/op 804 B/op 10 allocs/op
PASS
ok github.com/coder/coder/coderd/userpassword 5.036s
```
